Child’s behavior when lying, anything? This will certainly have an impact when they’re lying. Children will not always be nice and honest with you as parents. Even sometimes, if they want something but you do not give it, the child will do what you do not want is to lie.
After the child became a teenager, they will start stubborn, fight, did not obey the advice and your words, even they might no longer believe in you as parents. Why is that? You need to know what their reasons for doing so.
Maybe you realize lying to your children never do. But in fact, often you do it unconsciously. Just a small example as you will go to the office and the child does not want to lose you even until he cries too, you try to deceive her way lay in your own way like saying, “Mama’s just a minute dear.” But in reality, you go home until the afternoon and even late at night because they have to work overtime to accumulate.
In any other case you do often, like when a child will eat. When you confront them difficult to eat, then you took out “moves” to fool them with promises him something. Let’s say, “C’mon honey, you have to eat. If you buy shoes according to ya later mama.” When we think logically, between meals with the shoes has nothing at all.
And it was obvious that you do so unconsciously, indirectly, the child has been educated to what is seen and done by the parents. It does look small what you have done on children. But with a lie no matter how small can you give a bad impact on children’s behavior for the future.
That way, education that you provide during this will be useless if the child will just be a rebel, dissident or unruly, and began to not trust the words of his parents. Because of what had been absorbed by it is your parents who are always lying to him in small things.
But if you want to always be on the stigma in the eyes of your own children because they always lie to her? Of course you do not want that right? Then what you need to do that children do not regard their parents as someone who likes to lie to him in small things? Be honest with children. It can provide a positive impact for him if you do it with great affection. It was not an easy beginning, but it can provide an explanation why you have to do so. Give sense when they’re happy mood. It takes time and a long process. But later on the child’s behavior will always get used to it. And most importantly you must always be honest and do the best for your child.